The Best Place to Invest Your Heart...is in Yourself!

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Queen, its been a minute. But I wanted to take the time out to remind you how important it is for you to engulf in loving yourself.

As a kid we're introduced to all of these fairytales about love between a man and woman, a prince and a princess. But queen, in all actually, your first love is yourself. Your mind, your body and your soul.

Look,  I'm not trying to deter you from finding love some day because I believe that is a feeling every person is deserving of. But I need you to understand that loving yourself is the foundation of all relationships. That not learning to love all of you can make things a bit more difficult.

 So I figured that today, we would talk about all of the parts of ourselves we can fall in love with. First and foremost queen I need you to fall in love with your mind. The things you deem to be beautiful, interesting, inspirational and so on, make you who you are. Love it. Embrace it. Share it. Your mind is your power, it holds your dreams, aspirations and all things you find good in the world. Cultivate that, and don't be afraid to share that with the world. Love your mind.

Next on the list queen is your body. Queen I need you to love every nook and cranny of yourself. Every curve, line, dimple and beauty mark. Every mole, every freckle, birth mark, all of it. It's yours and its beautiful. Your body is your temple. Respect it. Embrace it. Love it.

We depict love as something that can only be given by other people so much that we forget that we have the power to love ourselves first. I'm not saying you don't need anyone to love you, because everyone wants to be celebrated by another person. What I'm saying is you have to love yourself too.

This is not something that can happen over night, its a process. But queen I promise you its worth it. I promise you that if you learn to love yourself first, when the time comes when you decide to let someone love you, you will be ready, you will be happy and it will all be worth it.

Queen I know this specific part of our journey is difficult, but believe me when I say you are not alone. We're in this together, every step of the way. As always, Stay Strong !