Get Your Happy Back ☺️

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Queen, I know this isn't the usual time we meet. But this was on my heart and I just thought I should share it with you. So today I was out shopping for my new apartment and I ran into someone I hadn't seen in a very long time. Surprisingly, instead of saying hello, they asked why I seemed so happy. Then they went on to guess what exactly was making me so happy. Was is new friends? Was it a boy? Was it my school? What? For starters, I was unaware that I was radiating so much happiness. But more importantly, I was disappointed that one of those choices failed to consist of me being happy just because I decided to do so , because I'm in a place where loving myself and doing whats going to make Gabby happy is #1 on my list. I was completely and utterly baffled. Now granted, friendships can definitely bring light to your life as well as relationships and so on. But for me, for us queen, our biggest victory is finding happiness that isn't rooted in the the presence of another person or a particular stage in life because both are subject to change at any moment. Queen I'm talking about a happiness that has you listening to Beyonce at 3 in the morning laughing with your best friend about something stupid you did your sophomore year of high school. I'm talking about a happiness that has you dancing to Honeymoon Ave. by Ariana Grande and performing it in your living room knowing its a sad song but singing it as if were the happiest song in the world. I want you to get to a place where you wake up and just decide to go to the park, go see a random movie at 11 at night, dye your hair, read a new book, any and everything that will put a smile on your face, do it. I wanted to take this post to remind you that your happiness is the most important thing right now. We're at a point in our lives where we'e old enough to recognize when situations are doing more harm to us than good. We also are old enough to know how the decisions we make effect the happiness of those around us. So queen, here's what I need form you, be responsible with your actions. Both how you treat yourself and the people you come into contact with are most important. Do me a favor and try to do one thing a day that is going to get you a little bit closer to being a happier, healthier, lighter hearted you. Declare, claim, and own the fact that you like your life but you aren't going to settle for like, you want to love. I bring this to your attention queen because I don't want you to wake up one day at 45 with regrets that you didn't do enough things that made you happy. I don't want you to continue in unhealthy relationships or studying a major that is going to make you miserable in the long run. Queen I don't want you to settle for surviving life. I want you to live because that's what you deserve. Realize that life is too short for the key to your happiness to be in someone's pocket. We're on a journey to being the kind of women our mothers can be proud of, our daughters can look up to and the world can respect. Why not be a happy one while were at it. Now I'm not saying we won't have hard days, they will come, but I just want to make sure that after the hard day is over we get back up and decide to live again. There is a reason the saying goes that "The happiest women are the prettiest". You radiate on the outside what you feel on the inside. You deserve your happiness queen. So stop waiting for it to happen! Life is not a fairytale, we only get to keep what we are willing to maintain, happiness included. Go get your happy queen and as always, Stay Strong !